In our world, we often make decisions without questioning them. For example, if your parents were in business, you might assume that you will also become an entrepreneur without questioning it. Similarly, in my case, both my parents had university degrees, so it was expected that I would pursue the same path. Being in the personal growth industry for 20 years and surrounded by professional friends who have written and published books, including best-selling authors, I always took it for granted that I would write a book. It seemed like a natural part of our industry. However, being honest with myself has always been somewhat of a curse. I knew that I would only write a book when I had something meaningful to say. It took years because I focused on my work as an entrepreneur and marketer, helping other authors share their messages and teaching other people's methods. It wasn't until later that I realized I had my own perspective to share. Although much of what I share is based on the teachings of others, it's important to note that there are no entirely new ideas after thousands of years of human evolution.
At some point, I felt a strong desire to share my message with the world, and that was when I knew I was ready to write the book. As I started writing, my initial concern was finding a remarkable publisher. Given my background in the industry, I felt the need to publish with a reputable and noteworthy publisher. However, the search for a publisher became challenging, and I began questioning my approach. Having witnessed the natural process of book writing and contributing to other books, I realized that if I wanted to write a book about being true to myself, my values, and my authenticity, I had to do it on my own terms. This realization led me to choose self-publishing. I wanted the freedom to make my own decisions about the content, writing style, and structure. The initial version of the book reflected a rebellious spirit, aligned with its topic. However, when the manuscript was complete and I was ready to publish, a reputable publisher, Hay House, approached me. I saw the opportunity for my book to benefit from being published by a respected publisher, so I decided to work with them. My only condition was that I could maintain my unique and somewhat obstinate style in the book. We did collaborate on further editing with Hay House, resulting in a more conventional shape for the book. Nevertheless, at its core, this book remains an act of rebellion.
It was only then that I realized the most challenging aspect of writing a book, especially for someone like me who identifies as a writer, is the process of publishing it. Writing is a joy and a pleasure for writers. It is a form of self-expression, our craft, and our creative outlet. Therefore, the publishing phase has been the toughest part of this journey, a long and arduous process. It often feels like reaching the end of the manuscript is the finish line, but in reality, it's just the beginning. So, in answer to your question, that's the story behind this book.
Perfection. We all dream of living by it, feeling it, being it.
And it is in the name of perfection that we demonize our flaws, make ourselves ‘less-than,’ and render ourselves vulnerable to the shame of not being good enough.
We live in a society that subliminally encourages us to wear metaphorical masks, slay our inner sadness, and ignore our imperfections, or as Kristina refers to them, her ‘dragons.’ Even within the world of personal development and spirituality, toxic perfectionism lurks in the shadows.
In Kristina’s upcoming book Becoming Flawesome #BecomingFlawesome, she reflects on her own story, her battle against perfectionism, and what it took for her to return to what she now deems to be her most authentic self. Being described as “10 years worth of therapy in one book,” Becoming Flawesome is a celebration of our whole selves, warts and all, and the glory that is to be found in living in our truth.
Every chapter is closed with reflection points and exercises to encourage the readers to dive deep into the essence of who they truly are, what their values are, and how to navigate an oftentimes overwhelming world.
In this book, Kristina breaks the mold as she takes the reader on a journey through:
• The dark, controversial side of ‘personal growth,’ and the insecurities that thrive on it
• Self-care vs. self-love, and why you need both
• What authenticity actually is, beyond the buzz
• The ‘hermione Syndrome,’ and how to diagnose if you’re secretly suffering from it
• How to create aligned lifestyle habits that stick
• Why the more you judge others, the more you judge yourself
• Societal masks, and how to remove them from your psyche
• Imposter syndrome in the world of high-flyers
• Emotional literacy: how to cope with strong, painful emotions healthily
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Mind Valley Books: https://www.mindvalley.com/books/flawesome
Kristina Mand-Lakhiani is an international speaker, entrepreneur, artist, philanthropist, and mother of 2 kids. As a co-founder of Mindvalley, a leading publisher in the personal growth industry, Kristina dedicated the last 20 years of her career from teachers like Michael Beckwith, Bob Proctor, Lisa Nichols, and many more.
She started her career in a government office in her native Estonia and, by her mid-20s, achieved a level of success mostly known to male politicians at the end of their careers. It was shortly after that Kristina and her then-husband Vishen founded Mindvalley. From a small meditation business operating out of the couple’s apartment in New York, the company grew into a global educational organization offering top training for peak human performance to hundreds of thousands of students all around the world.
Kristina believes life it too important to be taken seriously and makes sure to bring fun into every one of her roles: as a teacher, mother, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and world traveler. Kristina helps her students to virtually hack happiness by taking them through her unique framework – “Hacking happiness” – a unique framework of balancing your life, taking in every moment, and paying close attention the small daily choices.
Kristina is also the author of three transformational quests – “7 Days to Happiness“, “Live By Your Own Rules.” and “The Art of Being Flawesome.” Kristina talks about personal transformation, authenticity, understanding and accepting oneself, and a path to happiness.
In July 2023, with the help of Hay House Publishing, Kristina releases her very first book – “Becoming Flawesome” #BecomingFlawsome. In her book, Kristina shares her own journey from being on top of a personal growth empire like Mindvalley to stepping aside, conscious uncoupling from her husband, and walking her path towards being more honest with herself.
Website: https://kristinamand.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kristinamand
LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/kristina-mand-lakhiani-73168414
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